What is avoided is the feeling
Treating procrastination as a time management failure rarely solves it. What is actually being avoided is the unpleasant feeling that rises when you think about the task: boredom, not knowing where to start, anxiety about doing it badly, the weight of being judged. Doing something else makes that feeling disappear briefly, which makes procrastination an immediately rewarded behaviour.
Identifying which feeling
Naming what is uncomfortable changes the response. Putting something off because you cannot see the first step needs a different remedy from putting it off out of fear.
- Overwhelm: you do not know the first step, so break it down
- Anxiety: you expect to do it badly, so decide the draft may be poor
- Boredom: there is no interest, so set a time and create an ending
- Resistance: there is a reason you do not want to, so address that first
Perfectionism blocks starting
The stronger the wish to do it well, the harder it becomes to tolerate a rough state, and starting gets postponed. Yet every finished piece passes through a rough state. Deciding in advance that the first draft may be bad makes starting far easier. Revising is emotionally lighter work than creating.
Starting is the hard part
Continuing further than expected once started is a common experience. That is why lowering the goal from finishing to two minutes works. Opening the file, writing only the first sentence, changing into exercise clothes: at a size where failure is impossible, the feeling to avoid shrinks with it.
Self-blame makes it worse
Being harsh with yourself for procrastinating enlarges the discomfort attached to the task, so the next avoidance is stronger. One finding that recurs in research is that people who treat themselves less harshly return to the work more easily. What was postponed cannot be undone, so moving to the smallest possible action now is the better step.
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